Learn to meditate – simply start observing the present moments

Meditating is an extremely simple mental exercise, but in practice people find it very difficult to continue. What is generally seen is people enthusiastically starting it but quitting after a few sessions or a few days, due to a variety of reasons. Most common is lack of patience and perseverance. During initial sessions, they find it difficult to observe breathing for an expended time. Though gradually, this “observation” becomes more and more easy, students tend to lose patience. Those who succeed in the first few days sit quietly for an uninterrupted 10 to 15 minutes, then they generally start practicing meditation regularly. Moreover, they, in between, start seeing its impact on their mind and body. By following the steps listed, anyone can learn meditation.

One can meditate even while walking, sitting, or lying on the ground, but the most recommended posture is sitting quietly, with spine straight, in peaceful surroundings.

Sit on a cushion on the floor, or on a chair, with a straight and unsupported back. Pay close attention to the movement of the breath. Breathing in, be aware that you are breathing in, and how it feels. Breathing out, be aware that you are breathing out.

Feel the coolness of air going in, and the warmth of the air coming out from the nostrils.

Continue this simple process for the length of your meditation practice, constantly redirecting the attention back to the breath.

There are many easy ways to practice mindfulness based meditation.

While we meditate, we are, as to be expected, distracted by surrounding sounds, physical sensations, and the irrepressible arising of thoughts. Whenever this happens, gently recognise that you have been distracted, and bring the attention back to the breathing. Just observe whatever is happening in a non-judgmental manner while observing and watching the breathing.

This is the essence of breathing-based mindfulness meditation.

In Transcendental Meditation, ™ instead of breathing, we pay attention to a mantra. TM is one of the most important and worldwide popular meditation techniques. Introduced way back in 1955 by Maharishi Mahesh Yogi (1918-2008), the technique is again very simple. One has only to inwardly repeat, silently, in the mind, a continuous mantra or word that is pleasing to the mind in order to achieve a restful state. TM gives our mind an inward direction. It helps us to turn the attention within, and once that is accomplished, the mind starts to settle down.

Another very popular meditation in India is Vipassana meditation, which is taught in various centres set up throughout India and abroad by the late S.N. Goenka. In Vipassana, meditators are asked to practice, for the first few days, breathing-based meditation, as explained earlier. After that, they need to observe their thoughts and bodily sensations in a non-judgmental way. This meditation is considered far tougher than TM and mindfulness meditation, but is very effective.

As we have seen, in meditation we are, while sitting quietly and comfortably, present to observe our breath or bodily sensations, or to repeat mantra with closed eyes. The idea is not to do anything intentionally, just experience the present moments. We are not required to react or respond to thoughts arising in our mind, but simply to observe and let them go. Whether we attend to the breath (mindfulness meditation) or mantra (TM) or bodily sensations and thoughts (Vipassana meditation), attention is distracted and our mind automatically goes in a different direction. Better yet, it simply rests. It is very difficult to hold our attention on breath, mantra, or the coming and going of physical sensations and thoughts, continuously for even 20 seconds. Random thoughts are certain to arise. Regardless of the nature of the distraction, we may then gently bring our attention back to the breath or mantra. We keep on repeating this process while meditating. Focus, un-focus, and then focus again goes on without resistance. When we do this, the mental faculty gets trained and we become more and more focused. As we become more focused, mind’s wandering lessens, and we become happier. .. or less unhappy. This is the simple science behind meditation.

In the same way that we practice mindfulness meditation, we can practice mindfulness in our daily activities – for instance, while eating, walking, and talking. In mindfulness meditation, the idea is to pay attention to whatever is going on in the present moment, simply to be aware of what is happening. If we are speaking, we must pay attention to the words we speak, and attentively listen to what the other person is saying. If we are walking, we should be aware of surrounding sights and sounds, our body movements, such as feet touching the ground, and the flow of the breath.